Apr 27, 2023
Your brain has a native language system—a natural, native way of thinking about who we are and what we’re capable of. We have used this language to create our identity and tell us who we are—and that informs what we do.
That means that in order to change your life, you have to change this native language system....
Apr 20, 2023
When things in our life don’t turn out the way we think they should or we struggle to create the results we want, we sometimes wonder if we need to try harder or if we need to turn things over to God instead.
Is getting a life we want a matter of striving or surrender?
And how do we reconcile our agency and our power...
Apr 13, 2023
All of us want less conflict in our lives and less conflict in the world, but that desire often feels out of our control. It’s easy to feel like the amount of love we get or the amount of conflict we experience is up to other people and their choices.
But the truth is that everything we feel—whether it’s love...
Apr 6, 2023
When you think about what you want for your life, one of the things that can get in our way is the fear that what we want might be selfish.
Going after our goals, following our desires, and paying attention to the things we want can feel self-serving and self-focused and sometimes we are suspicious of our own...